This BDSM Experience and Curiosity Checklist is a getting-to-know-you tool … a negotiation tool … something to help you explore the history and areas of curiosity for yourself or a partner or potential partner.
It is a downloadable list of hundreds of different BDSM/Kink/Fetish activities that you can print out or fill in electronically.
There may be things in this list that you have never heard of before or have never seriously considered for yourself. Your natural reaction may be one of fear or revulsion. If this happens, I encourage you to try to adopt a sense of curiosity in place of disgust. I guarantee that there are things on this list that are not nearly as scary as they sound. Also, sometimes a strong emotional reaction is a clue that something somewhere inside is already a little curious…
Scroll down to download the list!
Scene Negotiation Conversation Starter Forms
If you are looking for forms designed as conversation starters for a specific scene (these can be great for pick-up plat at a party), we have one designed for general BDSM play and a supplemental one designed specifically for rope. Check them out!
Acknowledgements:
The original version of this list was compiled from many sources by Master Guardian of Sin City D/s Network in Las Vegas, who gave his very kind permission for us to reuse it. We added a few things, split them into categories to lower context switching and updated the formatting a bit. We now make this version available to the community under the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International license.
Download the list and begin exploring!
This version is a macro-prohibited Excel file (.xlsx). You can print it out or fill out on a computer.
This version is a PDF generated from the Excel file. This one is intended to be printed out.
okay thats really a great idea i got some idea lists up with my rope enthusiast but this one is awsome. im sure they havent missed a step – a good base to talk about.thank you.