Choosing Rope

What type of rope should I use?

If rope bondage is new to you, start off with inexpensive Nylon or MFP at 1/4″ (6mm).  They are soft and sensuous, and come in lots of colors if you like colored rope.  Once you know that you are in to rope bondage, you might want to invest in a set of nice natural fiber ropes, Hemp &  Jute are favorites of many riggers.

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What type of rope should you use?

What type of rope is best for you?

It depends on what you want to use it for.  Here are some qualities of different kinds of ropes so you can decide for yourself based on your needs.

Here are a few commonly-used types for comparison.  Each is 1/4″ (6mm).

Note the different appearances of the different types. Natural v synthetic fiber, braided vs twisted, twisted one way vs the other.  There are many options.

Some people use Cotton or Nylon for their first ropes as the are inexpensive and easy to find.  If you do this, avoid “solid core” versions.  They don’t flatten as much under tension and don’t respond properly to various commonly used knots, lock-offs and frictions.  That said, I do like Solid-Core Cotton Sash Cord for making floggers.  You will see it used extensively in Flogger Forge.

“Natural Fiber” Ropes:

Twisted Monk Hemp, Multicolor

These include:

Hemp, Jute, Sisal, Cotton, Coconut, Bamboo

  • Pro: Better friction or “tooth”, so it grabs better and takes fewer knots to hold securely
  • Pro: It doesn’t stretch as much and has more consistent stretch characteristics.
  • Con: Doesn’t take dye as well. Colors will be more muted, less brilliant and it will take more dye to get a rich color.
  • Con: More expensive


  • Hemp and Jute are very popular with riggers world-wide.
  • Hemp is stronger and can be used in suspension.
  • Jute is typically lighter and moves in a nice springy way and is popular for floor work.
  • Sisal can certainly be used for floor work but be prepared for rope burns.
  • Coconut rope is even more nasty.  It is used when rope burns and discomfort from the rope itself is actually part of the plan for the scene.  Most rope bottoms just stop struggling altogether after a little time in coconut rope…

“Synthetic Fiber” Ropes:


For floor work (non-suspension), these include:

Most synthetic ropes from a hardware store, including the type of nylon they usually carry (which is often solid-core), “mixed fiber” rope, & poly-pro.  Also parachute cord.

  • Pro: Less expensive
  • Pro: Nylon, MFP and Paracord come in many brilliant colors
  • Con: Poly pro or mixed material does not take color well/consistently with regular dyes
  • Con: Some types can stretch in inconsistent/unpredictable ways.

For Suspension: 

Amsteel, POSH, MFP (multi-fiber propylene), Nylon (types curated by suppliers for use in bondage, not the types typically found in hardware stores), Hempex

  • All the Pros from above
  • Pro: Good choices for suspension up lines as they are much stronger than natural fiber ropes of the same thickness.
  • Can be purchased in a wide variety of colors, but do not take dye well at home.

Rope Construction

Rope Construction

Rope can be constructed in a number of common ways.  Here are a few examples:

  • (A) Paracord – Braided nylon sheath over twisted nylon thread making up the core
  • (B) Cotton Clothes Line – Braided cotton sheath over twisted cotton thread making up the core
  • (C) Hemp Rope – Twisted strands, see next panel for more details
  • (D) Cotton sash cord – Braided cotton sheath over twisted nylon thread making up the core

Whether you pick braided or twisted rope is a personal preference, but they do behave and look different.  Twisted Rope has more bumps in it which tends to increases the friction and make knots hold a little better, but braided rope with good tooth will hold just fine as well.  Either is fine, but most riggers don’t like to mix the types in a single scene, the stylistic differences can look jarring…

Twisted Rope Components

Twisted Rope Components

Many people love “traditional” rope–that is, “twisted strand” rope–made of natural fibers.

  • (A) A twisted strand rope…
  • (B) is made up of 3-5 Strands (3 is the most common)
  • (C) Strands are made up of yarns.  (In this rope, I unlaid one strand to find it was composed of 4 yarns.)
  • (D) Yarns are made of individual fibers.

Each layer is twisted in the opposite direction of the layer before.  This interconnects all the fibers, allowing their internal friction to grip each other firmly to make a strong rope.

One of the reasons we talk about using the “hook” or the “scissors” technique to handle rope is that if you use your thumb and forefinger in a pincher-like movement to grab the rope, you might grab just one strand and not the whole rope.  If you do that and pull, you can pull the strands apart, unlaying them in the middle of your rope–hyperthreading them– and getting your rope all messed up.  It is very difficult to get your rope back in order if it has been pulled apart like this and it will never be quite as strong.

Coloring or Dying Ropes:

Dyed Ropes

If you love colored rope, nylon can be a good choice (pure nylon, not poly-blends with nylon, not poly-pro, poly doesn’t accept dye).


  • (A) Nylon (pure Nylon) – Accepts dye well.  Easy to get bright or rich colors
  • (B) Nylon/Poly-Pro – Nylon accepts dye, poly-pro doesn’t accept it as well.  You end with this mottled look
  • (C) Hemp – Accepts dye, but the color is duller/more matte.  To achieve a deep, rich color like this take much more dye than does nylon.

Nylon is nicely smooth and comfortable as well, but it has very low tooth, so you need to use surgeon’s knots instead of square knots and any half-hitch style knot should be done three times instead of two.

You can also by MFP that is pre-dyed.  MFP is soft, yet has good tooth and holds knots well.  It is also very strong and some riggers prefer it for suspension support/anchor lines.

If you want to buy your own natural fiber rope and condition it yourself so that it is ready to use for bondage without being too prone to giving you or your partner rope burn, McVarij has a nice tutorial on what you need to do. Perhaps after doing this yourself once or twice, you will understand why bondage rope vendors charge what they do for bondage-ready rope! 🙂


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  1. Hello and thanks for all of this wonderful and organized content. In a Shibari class an instructor suggested that particularly for beginners solid core ropes had greater risk of linear pressure on nerves than woven naturals like Jute since the cored ropes dont flatten as much.. Im just curious if you agree. Ive got a nice selection of Jute now but it is expensive and wondering if the solid core alternatives are a real option.

    1. That is a really interesting point. I haven’t run across that particular idea before, but it makes intuitive sense. I talked about it with a colleague and, while this point may be true, it is less cited as the reason to avoid Solid Core. More commonly discussed reasons are that it doesn’t behave the same with tying knots, lock-offs and frictions, so it is really not useful beyond a certain point. Your question has prompted me to update this page to point people to inexpensive MFP as a good starting rope. Thanks!

  2. Ouch! Now I’m pretty sure that it’s better buy a better rope. Unfortunately here in Rio de Janeiro, we don’t have much options. But worth the experience, as apprentice 😉

  3. Howdy Master Lazarus, greetings from Brazil, I bought a few meters of sisal rope at a fishing store. Wasn’t expensive, but I feel that it´s a little rigid and his sisal fibers may becomes uncomfortable for my partner, she said that the rope spit her out a little. Do you have some tips for me smooth the rope? Something to lubricate or wear out a little?

    1. Greetings! McVarij has a nice tutorial on conditioning rope. Check it out here:
      (After you have been through this a couple times, it becomes more clear why many of us buy it with all this stuff already done! 🙂

    2. We used to live in Rio de Janeiro. There’s a great place in Rua da Alfândega 177, ABO Palácio Têxtil. (AKA Palácio das Cordas – “Rope Palace”) Supposedly for arts and crafts, but some people from Rio kinky scene used to be regulars there, as you can buy rope by lenght.

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